Wednesday, July 29, 2020

My Overcrowded, Way Too Cluttered, Craftroom

My craft room is an overabundance of stuff. I honestly feel like it is the junk room most of the time. Not only does it house every craft item, for any project I've ever made, but it also is the dwelling of our wrapping supplies, my teacher items, my computer and monitor, and some other random odds and ends. Honestly, I'm sick of it. I'm so overwhelmed every time I step into the room, which makes it pretty hard to actually enjoy working there. I feel like the second I clean it there is now 50 other items out. I don't know if that is just the nature of a room meant for crafting or if it is the result of having too much stuffed into four walls. My goal is to downsize my possessions in this room to hopefully create a place of calm and joy. After all it is much easier to create in a place that does not overwhelm you. Here goes nothing…

If you find yourself in a similar situation and wonder where to start, think about the project in small bites instead of a whole elephant. Jordan Page, mother of eight children, runs her own business and has her own YouTube channel with a focus on saving money and productivity. About a year ago, I watched one of her videos about getting and staying motivated. Jordan reminds her audience that you eat an elephant one bite at a time. She uses this same mindset when tackling big projects that feel like an elephant. Jordan encourages people to break down these giant tasks into J.O.B.s (just one bite). This is the method I’m following to declutter my entire house. Sometimes I only have time for one drawer or five pots and pans, but sometimes I have time for 4 cabinets. This strategy gives you momentum while also stopping you from giving up. If you want to get some motivation for a big project check out her video below:


To start in my craft room I began in some of the smaller spaces like the cupboards and drawers. A lot of my cupboards are small, as you can see from the pictures, but they were chock full of school supplies.



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As I sorted, I found multiple supplies that I never used anymore and bought for purposes that were necessary 10 years ago. For example tennis balls and silly putty from my first year of teaching. (I have not used them since.) I also had over 1,000 craft sticks, which is way too many. I don't even remember why I bought cotton balls, foam pieces, silly putty, or all the construction paper. I took out all the things that I knew I had too much of or would never use again and donated it. I got rid of all the blank CDs and I no longer make CDs for school and save everything to a thumb drive. I sorted through binders and music books and I set aside music books that I no longer have a need for to sell on a music teacher buy/sell/trade page on Facebook. I don't even know how many pads of post its I had. I know teachers use a lot of post its, but I have some at school and still had probably 50 stacks. The large quantities of pens and pencils got divided between our pen and pencil draw in the kitchen, my pen and pencil holders in my office, and my husband's pen and pencil holder in his office space. I still had too many, so some of them got donated as well. I was really excited to find brand new highlighters to replace the old highlighters I had that were drying up. One of my three ring whole punches has been broken for a while, so I finally tossed it. I also had two staplers that didn't work that got tossed as well. It was surprising to find so many empty binders because I feel like I'm constantly on the hunt for a binder and normally end up purchasing a new one, but there they were. Following this process of narrowing down school supplies, I found that my cupboards and drawers were actually quite empty. In fact, I consolidated all of my small school supplies like rubberbands, clips, stapler, 3-ring whole punch, and paper clips into just one drawer.






The next J.O.B. was filling my brand new hobby station. About 15 years ago my parents bought me this hobby station, as a Christmas gift, for when I eventually moved out. (No my parents were not trying to push me out. I was in high school at the time and they were trying to get me something practical as I rarely asked for big ticket items for Christmas.) Unforunately, this piece of furniture never got put together and I actually forgot about it. My mom and her boyfriend, Randy, put it together for me recently and it now is the new home for various crafting supplies. The top drawers holds all of my thread, sewing supplies like rotary cutter, pin cushion, and safety pins.


The second set of drawers contain elastic, velcro, and zippers, while also fitting my stamp collection neatly sorted. I narrowed down my stamp collection to fit into one drawer, by selecting only stamps that served multiple purposes. For example Christmas stamps, birthday stamps, thank you stamps, etc. I only plan on using my stamps for making cards in the future, so all the other stamps were not necessary.


The final drawer goes along with my stamp collection and includes inks, ink remover, and a few paper punches. I actually found even more inks in Vincent's room and will eventually go through and donate some of the remaining inks.


The added drawers of the hobby station allowed me to open up one shelf on my wall that I can now store my favorite music teachers resources, which include all of John Feierabend's music song collections. I also have my First Steps in Music curriculums, Feierabend Fundamentals, and some other song books for concerts. I appreciate being able to have all of my commonly used music resources right in eye sight. This will also make it easier to put them away after using them each time.


I was even able to get rid of another piece of furniture in my craft room, which was a bookshelf with pink and blue drawers. We are going to store that in the shed for now and will probably use it in Vincent's room when he gets older, but it feels so good to have downsized enough to get rid of furniture. I actually had already moved a whole bookshelf out of my craft room a few months ago before this minimizing process, so this is techinically the second piece of furniture I've been able to eliminate:

I didn't do much on my other shelving unit. I narrowed down the amount of paint I had to just one of each color. Now the shelf only has paints, paint brushes, and buttons.

I still have several decorations, but I tried to be more mindful of what I used as a decoration.I tried to choose trinkets that had some significance to me like things from my grandmothers, father, or our wedding.

The final task was the corner of my craft room. This corner probably drives me the most crazy. The problem is there is no other good place for the wrapping paper, so it got put in the corner of my craft room. That in and of itself is not a huge deal. The problem is over the past 4 years I have accrued tons of tissue paper and gift bags that have avalanched out of control. It's very overwhelming to work in a space where you see that encrouching on your work space. My solution was to sort through the tissue paper and gift bags and select just enough to fill an empty drawer. I got rid of all the extra gift bags and tissue paper. Now it is still all here for when I need it, but it is hidden from view allowing me to have some peace.


Now here is a peak into the other drawers in my craft room:

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And finally, I'm going to start keeping track of how much I donate and sell throughout this process. Here is the update as of yesterday:

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Friday, July 17, 2020

Clothing Sort

On Monday, Vincent spent the day at day care and I began sorting through all of my clothes. I have a LOT of clothes! You can see in the pictures all the clothes that I rounded up from around the house and piled up on our bed. I found clothes in the basement, clothes tucked away in tupperware bins, clothes in every dresser drawer (including a dresser in the basement), a few loose ends in Adam's dresser drawers, and a closet full of clothes.
ALL my clothes


"This will be a challenge" I thought.
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I started by sorting through each item and putting them into piles in our living room. I created a pile for dresses, t-shirts, dress shirts, sweaters, zip-up and cardigan sweaters, work-out pants/capris, dress pants/capris, and a final pile for maternity clothes. The whole living room was full of piles. I'm still not positive I found everything. In fact, I know I haven't. I know I'm missing three pairs of maternity pants somewhere in the house, which means there is bound to be a few articles of clothinglost somewhere in the house.
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Sorting through clothes was difficult. I am going to guess that giving away clothes is going to be one of the hardest parts of this journey. I recently listened to a book called Faster Than Normal by Peter Shankman. He talked about how we often hold onto things because it is a reminder of who we wanted to be. I think that is what a lot of my clothes are for me.

I've had a love and hate relationship with clothes most of my life. When I was younger (around late elementary school through middle school) I found clothes playing a big role in forming relationships. When I first transferred to public school, I was asked why I didn't dress with jeans and name brand t-shirts. I explained that I just liked to be comfortable and wanted friends that would accept me for who I was, not what I wore. I remember being somewhat carefree about such things then. Even in high school I wore comfortable dress pants (I always preferred dress pants over jeans) and a sweatshirt nearly every day of school.

However, in college is where I hit my turning point. I wanted to fit in so badly with a group of other music ed majors and a few of them commented several times about how they wanted to give me a make over. It would make me so angry because I didn't NEED a make over. I knew how to dress fashionably and how to do make-up. I didn't actually NEED anyone's help to follow the "rules" of society. I chose not to. That year is when I started obsessing about what I wore to prove that I knew how to dress and didn't need their help. That is when I started focusing on each item in my closet and making sure I had the "best".

Since my early twenties, I have continued to select styles that I know are on trend and look polished. This has resulted in a wide array of clothing that hardly ever gets worn and overwhelms me with choices each morning. I can't tell you how many days I have put on pants and wondered what shirt goes with them. Then I select a shirt to wear and that one doesn't make me feel like I look good, so I go and select a different shirt. Then that shirt fits, but now I need to pick the right accessories. It is exhausting and I end up running around like a chicken with my head cut off. Lots of time wasted...

To begin eliminating this problem I created these "rules" when choosing what to keep and what to donate:
  • It has to fit NOW. Not if I lose a few pounds... Not when I gain a few pounds... Not during a specific season... NOW.
  • It has to be good quality with no current holes, stains, rips, etc.
  • It has to be versatile
  • It can be worn at work, church, and running errands
  • You'll also notice when you see what I selected that I tried to go with a color scheme of sorts. This allows for more mix and match options without much thought and effort.

My original goal was to get down to 30 items, which is recommended for a minimalist wardrobe. However, when I actually counted all the clothes I started with I decided that there was no way I could get to only 30 items over night. So, I decided to start by getting rid of at least 50% of items from each category.

I started sorting through shirts and thought about which ones I tend to grab. Don't we all have things in our closet that we automatically reach for? Don't we all have favorites that we wear over and over again? Why do we hold on to all the items that sit in the back of our drawer or closet?
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I reflected to Adam that night about how so many items in my closet were never worn. Even if others told me they looked great on me, I never wore them. Some of these items my friends and family told me looked great on me, but I still did not wear them. Why don't I wear them? Obviously there is something I don't like about it. So, I finally let it go. I'm done wearing things for other people. (Note: I am not insinuating in any way that my friends or family were trying to force me to be someone other than myself. My friends and family truly do accept me for me, they were just complementing me. It is nice to give complements, but it is also ok to do what you want with your wardrobe regardless of others thoughts or opinions.)

Skirts and dresses were pretty easy. I was even able to wear all the dresses during pregnancy!

I limited t-shirts to 9. That is still too many when you think about how often you do laundry and the fact that I could work out every day and still have a few left, but it was the best I could do for now
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Pants were the hardest. Once upon a time I was skinny. Skinnier than I ever remember being. I felt so good about myself and had so much energy. It came with a lot of work and a lot of effort. I still held on to all of the pants that fit when I was 20 pounds lighter. I also had all the pants from the time I was 20 pounds heavier than I am now. I've never been able to part with pants. I've always worried that I'll gain the weight back and need new pants. I hate buying new pants... However, I decided with this journey I'm letting go of the past. One day I will get back to that size. I know I will, but for now I need to be happy with who I AM. Even after having a baby I'm 20 pounds lighter than and more in shape than I was before getting married. I got rid of every pair of pants that did not fit. If I lose more weight, I can always reward myself with new pants and keeping my "fat pants" only makes me hold onto the negative self talk that drives me back. I'm embracing the body I have. P.S. You should too!

My final breakdown of clothing:
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Now everything for Summer-Winter fits in my dresser drawers without stuffing! It is amazing. I apologize I don't have before shots of my drawers. I'll try to do better with including before shots from now on.
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Tuesday, July 14, 2020

The First Steps

Now that my Masters capstone project is done and presented I finally feel I have enough free time to set aside to really start sorting through possessions and letting go. As stated in my earlier post, I'm ready for this change, but I also realize it will NOT happen overnight. Honestly, I'm not sure I want it to. It can be overwhelming to let go of things and there are still things I am having a hard time getting rid of. Especially when it comes to my clothing. (More about that in a future post...)


Here is my final living room closet.

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Toothbrushes and toothpaste drawer


Before Sunday, I had started sorting through a few things in my living room closet. There was not a lot in it. Mostly my husband's shoes and several jackets. I had one spring jacket, a rain jacket, winter coat, and another coat I'm planning on selling. I decided to keep all of that. I also have one winter coat that I used when I was pregnant with my son, and since I'd eventually like to have more children I held on to that as well. What I did manage to part with were the bundles of scarves and hats I had knit or collected over the years. It was a little hard to get rid of some of the scarves that I personally made, but I realized that they could eventually be used by those that need them more than me or just someone who would actually wear them instead of putting them in a basket somewhere. Even with the amount of winter accessories I have I still typically wear a specific hat, a specific scarf, and a specific set of mittens or gloves based on the weather. It is silly to have more, right?

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On Sunday I took the dive into my bathroom. I thought it would be rather overwhelming, but I found it pretty easy. I ended up with three small garbage baskets full of stuff that was old and/or never used plus an abundance of stuff to go off to St. Vincent de Paul. It surprisingly felt therapeutic as I dumped old make-up from my high school years and lotions that were only used 2-3 times. Why had I held on to this stuff for so long? What was the point? My husband helped clean out the bathroom and I think he was even surprised how much stuff he held on to that was pointless, old, or broken. The results were a few cupboards and drawers that still seem a bit full, but other closets that are almost completely bare.

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I thought the emptiness would somehow feel sad, lonely, or boring. However, I feel the opposite. I feel free! I feel free of clutter. I feel free to find what I actually need without digging through a bunch of garbage. I was happy to find a new place for medications that are further from little hands that are getting more and more curious and opening more and more cupboards. I also felt good about all the things I could give to those less fortunate. God has provided so much for my little family. It is time for us to give back. Money and things truly do NOT buy happiness.

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Finished bathroom closet